Maintaining a Long Lasting Erection
How to Maintain an Everlasting Erection
"Never try to impress a woman, because if you do she'll expect you to keep up to
the standard for the rest of your life."
W.C. Fields
Before John, a 32 year-old married male, attended one of our S.P.I. weekend seminars,
he had a relatively common problem: he had difficulty maintaining an erection for as long
as he desired.
It wasn't that John came immediately; he had the ability to control his orgasm for several
minutes after penetrating his wife. But, as soon as John's wife started to make sounds or
movements that let John know that she was becoming particularly aroused, he found it
almost impossible to avoid ejaculating.
He was all right as long as he was completely in control of the friction/motion of the
lovemaking...but, as soon as she began to take control of the thrusting, he would lose
control.
This was frustrating to both John and his wife; more times than not, he would orgasm
several minutes before she would and he was tired of apologizing.
Now John feels completely in control of his erection and his ability to postpone his
ejaculation as long as he would like.
When John's wife becomes very aroused and starts to make those telltale sounds and
movements that she is approaching her own orgasm, John has the ability to maintain his
erection through every scream and contraction of her orgasm...not ejaculating until she is
finished or until she has finished for the second time-or third!
Having complete control over your erections and orgasms is the foundation upon which
most of the rest of this book is built. Without this basic ability, it is difficult to achieve true
sexual skill.
What did John learn at our seminar that made such a dramatic difference?
He learned to...Think about baseball statistics when he is getting close to orgasm!
Well, not really...that was a joke.
But, in reality, if you have read the advice of many other supposed sex experts, you are
aware that their advice is really only a variation of this suggestion!
"Concentrate on sad or upsetting subjects."
"Bite your lip to divert your attention away from the sensations in your penis."
Whatever...basically they are telling you to learn to change your focus to something
outside of the wonderful pleasures/sensations that you are feeling as you begin to
approach orgasm.
Wrong!
Sex was created to be enjoyed.
I want (and want you) to enjoy every tiny little variation of sensation and pleasure that sex
offers.
Consequently, you need to learn how to confidently enjoy the entire experience of sex,
without the concern of ejaculating too soon.
Why bother if you are supposed to be thinking of something else...just when it is "getting
good?"
No, the goal is to be able to maintain your erection as long as you desire, controlling your
orgasm indefinitely, while you completely enjoy and feel everything.
You want to be able to use your penis on your wife like a feather or a sledge hammer...all
the time totally confident that you will not come until you choose to.
Before you can accomplish this feat of skill, you will need to do the following homework:
1) Develop a strong, well-conditioned PC muscle.
2) Become acutely aware of each of the phases of your orgasm process...and each
phase's particular sensations. Although a strong PC muscle is the foundation of
sexual prowess, this awareness is the true art necessary to maintaining an
"Everlasting Erection." To be continued.
