Three Women Prevented A Date Rape From Happening - MUST READ
This story will shock you..please be attentive as you read it!
Sonia writes..
''GUESS WHO STOPPED A RAPE LAST NIGHT?! THESE GALS!
Ok, so
we're still recovering from the events, but we wanted to tell the story.
And if it seems like the photo is making light of a heavy situation,
it's because we know FB prioritizes pics AND we needed to get your
attention. This is no joking matter.
Monica, Marla,
and I were at Fig at the Fairmont for their delicious happy hour ("Fig
at 5." Treat yourself). I was going on about something and saw Monica
staring behind and making a funny face. I stopped. "What's going on?"
After a few second she said "That guy just put something in her drink."
Now,
Fig is a nice restaurant. We were enjoying our charcuterie platter and
some fancy cheeses. That type of place. They had a bottle of wine they
were splitting. It seemed like a first or second or third date. After a
few "Oh god. What do we do"s, I got up to find her in the bathroom to
tell her. Warn her. Tell her to get up and leave this creep. Make him
drink it. Something.
So,
after feeling awkward hanging out by the sinks in the bathroom til she
was done, I approached. "Hey! Um, this is kind of weird, but, uh, we saw
the guy you were with put something in your drink."
"Oh My
God." She said. Shocked, kind of numb, so I babbled "Yeah, my girlfriend
said she saw him put something in your drink and we had to say
something. Woman to woman...you know. We had to say something. How well
do you know that guy?" I was expecting to hear "We just met," but I got:
"He's one of my best friends."
Shit. Yeah. One of her best friends. They had known each other for a year and a half. They worked together.
I
continued to talk for a bit and said she could ask "the one with the
short blond hair" any questions since she was the one who saw it and
then left her to return to the table.
When I
got back, Marla was talking to the server about what happened. Seeing if
he or the manager could do anything. Monica filled us in on more of
what she saw.
"He
pulled her glass toward him, kind of awkwardly, then he took out a
little black vial. He opened it up and dropped something in. Then he
tried to play it cool, like checking his phone and hiding the vial in
his hand and then trying to bring it back down slyly." He apparently saw
Monica looking. Marla said she was just going to lean over to Monica
and say "that guy is acting really creepy" when she saw Monica already
looking. Witnessing.
It only
took a minute for the manager to walk to their table, see if everything
was ok, allowed the girl to order a sparkling water. All super cool. He
stopped by our table and said he couldn't do much because he didn't see
it. But he did let security know.
The
poor woman had to sit through 40 more minutes, sitting across from "one
of her best friends" knowing that he was trying to drug her. Marla
noticed him several times chinking his glass to hers to get her to
drink. She played it cool. Mostly, I believed, just stunned. The staff
wanted to jump in and dump the glass, dump him, do something! I was
going through fantasies of walking up and demanding he drink the tainted
glass of wine. Eventually, they finished up dinner. There was a delay
getting their bill "The computer is down" is what the waiter kept saying
to him. Then, in walks Santa Monica PD. They say "Come with us" and he
doesn't protest. Doesn't ask why. Doesn't seem surprised.
The
head of security came by and said that because we notified them
immediately, they were able to go back and review the footage from the
security camera.
They
got him on tape. They had proof of him drugging this girl. They took the
glass away as evidence. They kept us for statements. We asked the girl
if she had a ride home. "My car is at his place. In his building. We
came together." Part of a plan. We were blown away. She was still in
shock.
But it wasn't over.
From every table In our section, from through out the restaurant, people came by to thank us for taking action.
"It happened to my sister...I'm glad I was there to take her home."
"It happened to my roommate at a producer's party. He's still messed up from it."
"It happened to me. At a backyard barbecue."
"It happened to me. At a bar I worked at."
"Some Heroes don't wear capes. Thank you. It happened to me. Thank you."
"Fuck yeah you guys! You fuckin rock!"
At
least 10 stories of being personally affected by someone like this.
Something like this. Those were only the ones who knew what went down. I
am sure there were tons more stories through out the restaurant and the
hotel.
We kept
thanking the manager for taking action. We are well aware how many
people would not have taken what we said seriously. Not taken action.
Said their hands were tied.
So thank you, everyone at Fig and Fairmont in Santa Monica for keeping this guy from harming someone.
And
thank you in advance to everyone who sees this and shares this and
reminds each other that yes, you SHOULD say something. Even if it's
awkward or weird or just uncertain if anything can be done.
Know that YOU did something. And that it helped''.
Sonia was with Monica Kenyon and Marla Saltzer when it happened..
Posted by Sonia Ulrich on Facebook.
*Well done girls,you three ROCK!

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